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Key takeaways
- Debts are paid from the person's estate, not by their relatives, unless the relatives are legally liable.
- If the estate cannot pay everything, creditors generally cannot recover the rest from surviving relatives.
- Joint debts can still be recovered from the surviving person, and you may be liable for bills for a home you shared.
- Executors should notify creditors properly, because mistakes can leave them paying from their own money.
- Check for insurance, such as payment protection on loans, that could clear some debts.
Losing someone is hard enough without worrying about what they owed. The short answer is that a person's debts are normally paid from their estate, and relatives are generally not responsible for them. There are important exceptions, such as joint debts and bills for a home you shared. This guide explains who pays, what an executor needs to do, what to check on mortgages and insurance, and what to do if you are being chased for a debt that was not yours. It describes the rules in England. Scotland and Northern Ireland differ, so speak to an adviser if you live there.
The basic rule: the estate pays
When someone dies, what they owned and what they owed becomes their estate. Citizens Advice explains that debts, such as a credit card, fuel bills, rent or a mortgage, come out of the estate. The person dealing with this, the executor or administrator, is responsible for paying debts, expenses and fees from the estate's assets.
This means the money and property the person left are used first. Relatives do not have to find the money for debts just because they are related.
Are relatives responsible?
Generally, no. If the estate does not have enough to pay everything, Citizens Advice says creditors cannot recover the amount still owed from anyone else, including the person's surviving relatives. This is true even for close family and for someone who inherits.
There are exceptions, and they are the ones to watch for. You can be liable if you were a joint account holder, if you guaranteed the debt or if you lived in a property and the debt is for bills tied to that home.
Joint debts and shared home bills
If a debt was joint, such as a shared overdraft or a credit agreement in joint names, the debt can still be recovered from the surviving person. If you lived with the person who died, you may also still be liable for property-related costs such as council tax or water bills. Our guide to joint debts and your partner explains how joint liability works in more detail.
What the executor needs to do
If you are the executor or administrator, it is worth being careful. Citizens Advice says you should try to contact all of the person's creditors and place a notice on The Gazette website, as well as a notice in a local paper where the person lived or worked. These notices give creditors the chance to make a claim against the estate.
This matters because of what can happen if you skip it. If creditors appear after the estate has been paid out, you might have to pay the rest of the debt with your own money. An executor is responsible for administering the estate correctly and may have to pay for mistakes.
Check for insurance that could pay off debts
Check whether the person had a policy that would pay off debts on death, such as payment protection insurance taken out with a loan, or life insurance linked to a mortgage. Cover like this can clear some or all of a debt. Our guide to life insurance explains how these policies work.
Mortgages
A mortgage is a debt secured on the home. Citizens Advice says the lender may require immediate repayment or ask the person who inherits to take over the mortgage. If the property is sold, the mortgage is paid from the sale. Life or mortgage protection policies may cover it. If you are struggling with mortgage payments, see mortgage arrears: what to do.
Funeral costs and getting money released
Funeral costs can be a worry when money is tied up. Citizens Advice says some banks will release money for funeral costs, probate fees and inheritance tax before probate is granted. Ask the bank what it needs from you.
If the estate cannot pay everything
If there is not enough money to cover debts, tax and expenses, Citizens Advice says to seek advice from a solicitor. The rules for an insolvent estate are complicated, and the order in which debts are paid matters. An executor who pays in the wrong order can be held responsible.
Looking after yourself
Dealing with money while grieving is hard, and there is no deadline for feeling ready. Take it a step at a time, ask for help from a trusted friend or relative, and use free advice services if letters from creditors arrive. You do not have to deal with calls or letters alone, and you can ask creditors to write to you rather than phone.
Who to tell, and what to keep
Keep a simple record of every letter, call and payment while you deal with the estate. Note the date, the name of the organisation and what was said. When you contact a creditor, tell them the person has died, ask them to put the account on hold and ask for a written statement of the balance. Keep copies of everything you send, because a clear paper trail protects you if a creditor later disputes what you were told or what has already been paid.
If you are being chased for a debt that was not yours
If a creditor or a debt collector contacts you about a relative's debt, do not pay out of your own money unless you are sure you are liable. Tell them the person has died, ask them to explain in writing why they think you are responsible, and get free advice before you reply. Our list of debt helplines shows where to call, and how to deal with creditors explains how to respond.
If you are being chased by someone who is not entitled to the money, you do not have to pay. If you are not sure, a free adviser can check your position. We checked the phone numbers and opening hours in this guide against each organisation's own website on 20 October 2026. Hours change, especially around bank holidays, so check the website before you call.
Frequently asked questions
Do I have to pay my parent's debts when they die?
What happens to a joint debt when one person dies?
Am I responsible for the council tax of someone who died?
What should an executor do about debts?
Who pays the mortgage after someone dies?
Sources and further reading
- Dealing with the financial affairs of someone who has died — Citizens Advice
- Liability for joint debts — Citizens Advice
- Get free debt advice — GOV.UK
- National Debtline — National Debtline
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